Those career goals you once had changed once you fell in love and had children. The peace and quiet to do what you want at anytime of the day no longer existed when you moved in with a man or he with you. Then throw in relatives and friends into the mix and now a daughter or son wants to either stay in the hometown she once grew up or move as far away from it as she possibly can. Things change sometimes for the better and other times for the worse! We ride with change or die trying.
Mothers don't come to this blog because they have it all together, they show up with pain in their hearts, frustrated with choices, irritated with spouses and children, and more, but through it all they thrive anyway. Each challenge presents a life lesson and we either embrace, push back, ignore, fight, or move on! For we know, only the strong survive!
You and I didn't go through childbirth just to have bragging rights we survived, we went through such a profound experience to be released from all those things that bound us mentally, physically and spiritually. We were to look at our children and recognize the fact that we are responsible for looking beyond ourselves now, mature, grow, teach, etc. we are to experience another dimension of our existence in this life. It was never meant to be all painful or all joyous.
I personally think that some mothers have lost sight of who they are as women, mothers, wives and/or spiritual beings. They have permitted worldly activities to weaken their minds, covetousness and jealousy to divide their hearts, over-eating to slowly kill them, and life challenges to separate them from their Creator and His will for their lives.
There is no one size that fits all mothers and don't let anyone throw you in one big box labeled, "This is what motherhood is supposed to look like." In addition, there is no chart that can be used to track our progress which tells us, "You have arrived, now do this...and if you don't make it here, then something is wrong with you."
So keep on crying mother, release the pressure, and then get back out there and win at whatever you know you are called to do. And if you don't know, then you might want to take more time praying, and less time being bombarded with people and things that constantly analyze you. Meditate on wise books, may I suggest the Holy Bible for starters?
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7