We live in a time where everyone is asking for money to pay for this and that, and for some people, including myself, it can be quite taxing especially when some smell generosity a mile away! I'm not surprised when some parents and others go off when yet someone else is asking for a donation of money and time! Enough already! Greedy people and those with big ideas hoping to keep their own money to self, deserve just what they get, no support! So check out the list of everything that has cost many parents much this year.
1. Scholastic book fairs twice a year and advertising in between to visit website to buy books.
2. Friday weekly treats.
3. School store.
4. Fee to join PTA including frequent requests to volunteer for too many events to count.
5. Restaurant events--partial proceeds go to the school when you spend money you shouldn't eating out.
6. Afterschool programs that usually cost $80 plus dollars per child over a 10 week period. Add gas, snacks, eating out at restaurants, uniforms, and other things needed to join the soccer team, acting, chess, science program, and other activities.
7. Art made by the students. A long list of things for you to buy so that your child's artwork can appear on the items. Price range from $6 to $50 plus per item. (As if the paper crafts, drawings, cardboard box projects, and other stuff isn't already enough stuff!)
8. T-shirts for everything your child's school participates in when competing with other schools.
9. Holiday fund-raisers (Easter, Christmas, Valentine grams, cards, candy, novelty items, etc.) Most companies don't support these fund-raisers because many people at work have kids doing the same thing. The issues of having to support your own child, your co-workers, the boss' kid, etc. will take you to the poor house faster than you can say, "I don't have any money..."
10. Buy needed school supplies at the start of the year. (Seriously, why are we doing this, don't public schools get money from somewhere other than us?" Just think when you have more than one child, this adds up. Then the teacher will send a note back around again about mid-year indicating what she has run out of in the classroom.
11. Penny collections to pay for school property. (I can't even keep pennies in the house anymore!)
12. Field trips. (Need I say more?)
13. Holiday classroom parties. "Could you please send XYZ items, and also this, and we will need that...could you donate your time too? We really want to have a fabulous party for the children..." Who's idea was it? You will pay for your own party!
14. Supplies needed for recitals and plays.
15. School projects
16. Annual school photos (twice a year).
18. Box top collections. (Tempted to pay slightly more for an item to help your kid's school, eh?)
19. School lunches (not everyone income qualifies to get free lunches).
20. Library fees. (I was on my kids like a drill sergeant this year to return books.)
21. Uniforms bought through the school's supplier. (No thanks, Walmart here I come.)
School leadership and staff at many schools are also beggars, score keepers, and members of a club. I find it sad that the profession just doesn't have the reputation it once had in many circles. I resent being asked over and over again for contributions and if you don't someone is smiling in your face asking you about doing this and doing that. Many of us moms made financial sacrifices to be available to our children, partners and other kin. Then along comes yet another program, request for service or money that isn't doing anything more than entertaining children that need to learn as much as they can. (I can take them on a couple field trips myself.) Some staff use our hard-earned money for ideas that don't really pan out in the way these originators/innovators had hoped anyway.
I pick and choose with the giving, but to be quite honest I am turned off with literally hundreds of fliers that have come home asking, "Could you help..."!