The school year is just too long to be worried about the little things. We jump to conclusions sometimes when teachers talk to our children about their faults. We assume the worst if they should participate in an activity or accept an invite that is out the norm. We are parents with stresses that are sometimes induced because we don't know what else to do or think. When situations are beyond our control, it is very tempting to lose control, but don't!
With four sons, I have learned that everything they say and do or what is said or done to them doesn't need my involvement. Some things they have to solve for themselves especially homework. I sometimes think, "If I wasn't around, what would they do?" Check the Internet, call a friend, ask a relative, etc.
Challenges make our children stronger, but sometimes we want to shield them from the pain only to cause ourselves blues. Meanwhile, they look at us like, "What is so serious...Why is mom acting like that...I thought she taught us to..." We can easily lose our children's respect and trust when we are over-the-top about every little thing. Instead, they start to think we are crazy. In time, they begin to distance themselves from crae- crae (slang term means crazy).
So with the start of a new school year, you might as well be prepared for the highs and lows and take them all in stride. Even if the worst possible scenario does take place (but we pray it doesn't) at least we know that our children are survivors! They will overcome! We did!
Pick your battles, my sisters, because if you don't you just might not be around to help your children by the time they graduate college. Think about it.
Nicholl McGuire
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