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A Word from Blog Owner and Author of When Mothers Cry Encouraging Expectant Mothers

 Dear Expectant Moms,

I know that being pregnant and preparing to become a mom can be overwhelming. You may be questioning your readiness and feeling like you don’t have the support or resources to get through it. But I am here to reassure you that becoming a mom is an amazing experience, and with the right guidance, you can do it.

Being a mom will bring plenty of joy and great moments that you can’t even begin to imagine. Your bond with your child will be unparalleled, and the feeling of motherhood is incomparable. As a new mom, you have an incredible opportunity to shape this little person’s life by showing them love and guiding them through their development.

Teen moms may be especially worried about not being ready, but you have time to prepare for the task of parenting. You can start by exploring your options and learning more about the resources available to you. For example, many states provide programs specifically designed to meet the needs of pregnant or new moms who are in high school. These resources may include financial assistance, prenatal care, and even support services for parenting.

No matter what age you are, remember that you can be a great parent with the right tools and guidance. Utilize your family and friends for advice and moral support as well as national resources to provide a solid foundation for you on your parenting journey.

You got this!

I am a wife, mother of four sons and have relocated many times in my life. Through each life challenge I have learned perseverance. When you continue to rise above circumstances, you are a better teacher, spouse, parent, employee...so stay strong! For more information about my journey, check out When Mothers Cry available on Amazon. God bless.

Nicholl 

Monday

Helping Your Child with a Speech Impediment: A Guide to Recognizing and Managing Speech Disabilities

 As a parent of a child with a speech impediment, I know firsthand the anxiety and uncertainty that comes with discovering that your child may have difficulty communicating effectively. My child had been in speech therapy for 12 years and still lives with stuttering as an adult. My eldest son (who is now in his 20s) wrote a book about his journey called, Speak Confidently Living with Stuttering by Dom Kemp available on Amazon.com Despite his speech challenges, I know that early intervention is key to helping your child overcome speech disabilities. He does not struggle with speaking as much as he did when he was younger. In this blog post, I will share some information and tips on how to recognize speech impediments in your child and when to seek professional help.

Recognizing Speech Impediments:

Speech impediments can manifest in various ways, and some may be more apparent than others. Some common speech impediments include stuttering, lisping, cluttering, and apraxia. As parents, it is important to pay attention to your child's speech development and progress. Delayed speech or difficulty pronouncing words correctly may be early signs of a speech disorder. Also, observe how your child communicates with peers and how they respond to instructions. If you notice any inconsistencies in their speech, it may be time to seek professional advice.

Understanding the Causes:

Speech impediments can arise from various factors, such as hearing loss, neurological disorders, or developmental delays. It is crucial to consider all possible causes of your child's speech disorder, as this can help in selecting the appropriate treatment. A visit to a speech-language pathologist can help in identifying the root cause of your child's speech difficulties and determining the best course of action.

Seeking Professional Help:

Early intervention is key to overcoming speech impediments. Once you have identified potential speech issues with your child, it is essential to seek professional help. Speech-language pathologists are highly trained professionals who can assess and diagnose speech disorders in children. They provide customized therapy programs that are tailored to a child's individual needs. It is important to find a speech therapist who specializes in treating children with speech disorders and who can provide your child with the support they need.

Supporting Your Child at Home:

As a parent, there are numerous ways you can help support your child in their speech therapy program. Encourage and praise them for any progress or improvement they make. Practice the skills they learn in therapy sessions at home and incorporate them into your daily routine. Reading books aloud together can also help improve speech fluency and comprehension. It is crucial to create a safe and positive environment, where your child feels supported and encouraged to communicate freely.

Living with a Speech Impediment:

Living with a speech impediment can be challenging, especially in social situations. But it is important to emphasize to your child that their speech disorder does not define them, and that they should continue to strive for their goals and dreams. Through therapy and support, children living with speech impairments can achieve complete fluency and gain the confidence to communicate effectively.

Having a child with a speech impediment can be a daunting experience for parents, but with early intervention and professional help, children can overcome speech disabilities. As parents, we must pay attention to our child's speech development and progress, seek professional advice if we have any concerns, and support our children in their journey towards fluency. If you are struggling with speech impairment, do not give up hope. Through hard work and perseverance, we can speak confidently and overcome any challenges.

Check out more from When Mothers Cry blogger, Nicholl. she has candidly shared her experiences over the years on this platform parenting her four sons. Here are more posts you might be interested in, here.

Saturday

Common Mistakes Women Make When They Find Out They Are Pregnant

The moment a woman finds out she is pregnant is one that is full of excitement, joy, and anticipation. It's a moment that most women have been dreaming of for years, and it's finally here. However, it's also a moment that can be overwhelming, nerve-wracking, and even a bit scary. There's a lot to think about, plan for, and consider. Unfortunately, during all that excitement and emotion, pregnant women can often make mistakes that can be detrimental to their health and the health of their growing baby. In this blog post, we'll discuss some of the most common mistakes women make when they find out they are pregnant and how to avoid them.

Waiting too long to start prenatal care

One of the most important things you can do for yourself, and your growing baby is to start prenatal care as soon as possible. Unfortunately, many women make the mistake of waiting too long to schedule their first appointment with an OB/GYN. This can be dangerous because early prenatal care is essential for monitoring your health, detecting any potential complications, and starting a healthy pregnancy.

Not eating enough nutritious foods

Another common mistake that women make when they find out they are pregnant is not eating enough of the right kinds of foods. It's important to remember that during pregnancy, you are not just eating for one but for two. You need to provide your growing baby with the nutrients and vitamins they need to thrive. This means eating a varied diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and protein.

Continuing to engage in unhealthy habits

Many women continue to engage in unhealthy habits like smoking, drinking, or drug use even after they find out they are pregnant. It's essential to remember that anything you consume, or inhale goes directly to your growing baby and can have severe consequences. If you have any harmful habits, now is the time to quit for good.

Not getting enough rest

Pregnancy can be exhausting, and it's essential to make sure you are getting enough rest. Unfortunately, many women make the mistake of not prioritizing their sleep and instead push themselves to exhaustion. It's important to remember that your body is working hard to grow a baby, and it needs rest to do so effectively.

Stressing too much

Finally, it's important to remember that stress can have a severe impact on your health and the health of your growing baby. Many women make the mistake of stressing too much about every little detail of their pregnancy, which can lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. It's essential to find ways to manage your stress, whether that's through meditation, exercise, or talking to a therapist.

Pregnancy is an exciting journey, but it can also be a challenging one. By avoiding these common mistakes, you can help ensure that you have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby. Remember to prioritize your health and your growing baby's health by scheduling early prenatal care, eating a healthy diet, quitting any harmful habits, prioritizing rest, and managing your stress. And if you ever have any concerns or questions, don't hesitate to reach out to your doctor. Together, you can navigate this exciting and life-changing journey.

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